There are some rules you need to keep in mind to keep your friends with benefits secure, and your bedroom life amazing.
- Never-ever Never- ever say “I love you”
If you use those three words “I love you”, it will get you to two things either no more friends which means no more benefits, or congratulations my friend you will now be committed without a consent. Instead just say “I like you” and that’s what it is all about.
- Never freak out or get jealous
Never freak out about your friends talking to or going out with someone else. The moment you freak out you are so gone. They might just take you to be either clingy or too much interfering in their personal life. That’s what they don’t want and that is the reason they choose Friends with benefits and not a definitive relationship, because they think you are cool. So act cool, don’t lose yourself here. Instead you too plan a date out with someone or some of your cool friends.
- Never make your friends and family hangout with your friends with benefits
Your friends and family knows you as a different person and your friends with benefits knows you as a true bedroom companion. Once you try to mix them up, you are going to mess up both sides. So try not stabbing your own self. Keep both your departments absolutely different.
- What happens in bedroom stays in bedroom
Never flaunt your bedroom relationship to your friends. No matter how cool you might sound to your friends flaunting your sex life, the possibility is if your friends with benefits partner gets to know about it, they will disown you considering you a big time jerk. Keep your secrets a bit treasured and enjoy the moment.
- Keep No strings attached
Stay open to new relationships, don’t fall in love with your friends with benefits, you should never cuddle in bed to your friends with benefits, never fall in love with your friends with benefits. Most importantly follow all above rules if you wish to have a good sex life.
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