We exist in a feminist world, with a great probability for a woman president in the upcoming few months, so the matter of ‘catching a guy’s eye’ can be quite hard to swallow. But if you do it right you can still make him want you
The below tips will still take you somewhere regardless of the gender you are dating, as everyone likes the thrill of the chase.
- Express yourself
Definitely, there is something said for putting your wonderful and weird personality out there and seeing what returns back to you. Psychiatrist; Dr. Gail Saltz says, we are complex and interesting persons with various areas of interest, share them. Basically some food for thought and you’ll certainly make him want you
- Fake it till you make it
One of the most alluring qualities that will make him want you is your confidence. Julia Bekker of relationship recruiting site Hunting Maven says a secure woman carries herself in a way that is irresistible and magnetic to her admirers. A woman who values and loves herself is not scared of being alone. She is strong yet humble and is not jealous. You know your worth, and he will too.
- Get inside his head
According to Jennifer Seiter, general manager of Ex-boyfriend Recovery, we can remember incomplete or interrupted tasks better than completed. So, the more you can effectively begin and finish a conversation too soon, you will have an open loop that will make him want you more.
- Sack up
Dr. Saltz recommends calling up your loved one and asking them on a date. If not every time, sometimes because feeling desired and wanted makes you wish to stick around. So, every now and then tell him you want him and make him want you back
- Do not be the booty call
Dr. Saltz says, the truth is that men do not like dating someone who they observe as desperate and easy. Basically, if you want to make him want you, you need to get a bit of a challenge. You need to accept that you will be treated with appreciation and respect and not behave in ways that may contradict otherwise.
- Act like a partner
Another thing as that will make him want you as a feminist is not just sticking to foolish mind games. As Bekker points out, if you wish to be a partner, then you are required to act like one, whenever you are given the chance. Bekker explains, men wants to know that the girl they are with can be a good partner, someone who can bring something to the table, and someone they can rely on.
Alternately pay the bills at dinner or buy a few rounds of drinks. Surprise the girl or the guy you are dating with tickets to watch their favorite sports game or band and even bring over some of their favorite ice cream when you know they have had a bad day. Bekker says, showing up and giving those small gestures speaks volumes, and it also hints that you are willing and ready to enter into a relationship.
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