There is always this one scene in all the romantic movies where a loving and a passionate relationship ends with a heart shattering break up. This scene is then followed by the girl gulping lots and lots of ice cream and the guy heading towards his gaming console or maybe hanging out with his friends in a club. We feel that the guy has moved on with post haste and the poor girl still yearns over getting him back.
Now, time for that big question; was the guy fooling the girl?
In respond to this question, I will say that both the sexes have their own ways of getting over a break up.
Listed below are some strategies men use in getting over a break up.
1. Rocket speed
It may seem that the guy never loved his ex and has moved on with a rocket speed. But men are equally emotional like women. They divert their mind so that they don’t think of contacting their ex again. Their frequent hang outs, clubbing, partying, etc. becomes their companion in getting over a break up.
2. No contact
After their break up guys never contact their ex or show any kind of emotion left in them for their ex. Umm… this one is little bit rude. But this the way by which they get over a break up. Male EGO empowers them, always!
3. Lack of self-care
Men, as we all know are lords of creating mess all around them. After their break up, they tend to wear those easy slip on pajamas with messy hair and outgrowing beard; giving themselves a proper scruffy look, as the effort to look good, for some time, looks futile to them. Yeah, I agree this one is the weirdest step taken in getting over a break up but as they say ‘Men will be Men’.
4. Easy hook ups
To forget their ex completely, men start hooking up with different girls. They even indulge themselves into multiple one night stands. It works as a temporary band-aid on their fresh wounds.
5. Angry man
Women keep on swelling their eyes and show-cast their sadness; guys on the other hand, express their sadness through their wrath. Men are tough and they don’t easily cry in front of everyone. Yeah, maybe because our society is such which doesn’t allow men to be those crybabies!
When it comes to alcohol, men are the man-oeuvre. This is the best way for them in getting over a break up. Intoxicating, they feel is the best way out to forget things!
The sad part is that their friends also think the same.
Some men act like an ignorant specie out there, that tends to ignore everyone in their life. For a short span of time, they cut off themselves from the whole world and try to box up their feelings, so that they can start afresh. An optimistic way of getting over a break up… isn’t it?
Men are different from women. They don’t analyze the situation after a break up. All they care about is to get over with your memories and enjoy their independent life once again.
Also Read: 6 Popular Places to have Sex
Tags: break up, break up guide, break up pain, breaking up with someone you love, getting over, getting over a brea