So, all you beautiful girls out there, I think you all must have experienced this situation at least once in your romantic years!
You might not have been able to understand why he wants to stay as a friend when he doesn’t want to date you, right?
Okay, let’s discuss this!
We have heard from a number of girls lately that there is this amazing guy they like- and they have disclosed their feelings and their desire to be in a romantic relationship with him but this is how most of the guys replied to them:-
#HeSays- I’m not interested in a romantic relationship.
#HeSays- I just want to be friends.
#HeSays- You are a bit overfriendly for me. I don’t want to date you!
Also read: 5 things to do to avoid being friend zoned
What should you girls do with this?
If a guy says something like this, be very polite and in gentle way- believe his words!
Yes, believe him when he says he is not interested in romantic relationship or he doesn’t want to date you.
There can be tons of reasons that might be there because of which he doesn’t want to date you.
It may or may not really have anything to do with you!!
Once you have shown him that you have romantic feeling and he tries to politely tell you that he does not have those feelings for you, it’s time to step back gracefully.
This is going to be exact opposite of what you would want to do in that situation, I know!! Your heart might scream out to call him, text him or try to convince him into wanting to be with you and to date you, but you have to take a step back.
Here Is A Golden Nugget OF truth About Men For You Ladies!!
Stalking, chasing, pursuing or something a man is almost always a catastrophic turn off to him.
A lot of men think they would enjoy a woman showing this much interest in them. And they may enjoy it- only for a while!
And then it often becomes too much- and most of the men will hate it.
The more you can take your emotions out of this situation, the easier it will be to heal. Yes, it stings to hear this! You might realize after a short period of time once the love glasses come off, that you just dogged a bullet.
You must thank him for being honest with you and not dragging you along. It’s hard to tell someone something that you know will hurt their feelings but at least he decided to be honest with you by telling you he does not want to date you.
If you are texting a guy 80 times a day or emailing him every hour, or stopping by his work place uninvited often- and he is not reciprocating your interest, you are probably smothering him too much of attention.
If you have attempted to initiate a romantic relationship, and the guy you like rejects your invitation and clearly states that he cannot take a risk to date you, you will only repel him if you keep chasing him. It would be disrespectful to continue to go after a guy at that point. If he truly wants to be “friends”- he will contact. Respect his choice.
Don’t be disheartened. It doesn’t mean that he’s denying you because you are not beautiful enough or something!
There can be many other things, so just don’t loose hope so easily. He is not the only one in the entire world. You will find a lot of nice guys to date.Tags: doesn't want to date you, just friends, to date, to date you, why he just want to be friend