Why do I feel that all the butterflies have gone away?
Love is magical, captivating and the most beautiful feeling in this world. While we love to stay in love, there are times when we feel that something is missing, followed by a lack of attraction towards our partner and an ever increasing need for space. We shout out to the world about our first encounter with love and how perfect everything was, but no one really talks about the emotional rush fading away.
Is this just a phase or has my love fizzled out for my girlfriend?
Falling out of love is difficult to explain. It’s really not easy to even put a finger on this feeling after sharing the most memorable moments together!
However, these neglected feelings can take shades of hatred and anger in any relationship with time. It is always better to realize things before they take a turn for the worse.
Here, we give you a few signs to know if you should let her loose from the commitment of a lifelong relationship.
You’re not that into her?
As a guy, it might be common for you to feel attracted towards the opposite sex in no time! But when you start wandering outside while being in a relationship and the attraction towards your partner fades away, you know that love is slipping out.
The thought of spending time with her doesn’t give you an adrenaline rush anymore and you start finding excuses whenever she wants to see you. You blame not wanting to touch your partner on not liking PDA.
You start finding gaps in the way she looks, dresses herself or carries her lifestyle instead of loving her for who she is. This sign definitely calls out for a serious confrontation!
Cute habits have started annoying
Remember those cute little things you used to like about her?
Now, everything she does seems irritating and no longer cute. You always liked her jealous face, constant humming and cracking silly jokes with you- now you hold your tongue trying not to scream at the top of your lungs over these things!
You start getting frustrated and complain over the same details which you used to find adorable in the light of your love for her initially.
Feeling aloof around her
Love makes you forget everything else as you get extremely comfortable around that one person. Her presence always makes you feel like home. But what if the sensation of emptiness is knocking in? What if you now feel like something is missing out?
If you notice that something is going wrong every time the two of you are together, and it’s not just your movie or dinner plans, then you might be locked out of love!
Intimacy gone out of the window
“I could jump and bounce off beds like two horny bunnies with my girlfriend when the relationship started, but that craziness and excitement is nowhere to be seen now!”
This is a huge sign to indicate that love has left your life.
Sex brings you closer in a relationship and losing the desire to get intimate can make you feel emotionally and mentally distant from that person.
Have you lost your excitement?
Communication is the main element that holds a relationship together.
“Spending hours with my girlfriend was my most favorite thing to do. Between the work hours, family outings and boys night outs, whenever you got those two minutes I wanted to speak to my girlfriend.”
If you’ve started feeling restless or bored around your partner and look for ways to stay back at work or spend more time out with your friends, you know that you’re not in love with her anymore!
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