When our previous generations, the generations of our fathers and grandfathers were dating or having a relationship, they were not dependent on the materialistic goods. They had a different phase and pattern of life and also set of different goals of relationships. They were not dependent at all on the social media, at that time there wasn’t any. They had options to keep their goals of relationships alive by mutually meeting each other. Their preferences were quite different from the modern days’ couples who usually set their set of goals of relationships through some social media sites.
Social media is providing the modern days’ couple with wrong goals of relationships. Today people usually start a relationship just to plaster it all over the social media. Nowadays people are more attracted to material goods and expensive gifts rather than getting attached to love and emotions. These modern days social media oriented couple tends on getting their love and relationships spread over the social media with lots of perfect couple’s pictures and videos. The goals of relationships which couple used have to have previously have changed a lot. Now couple just wants to flaunt their relationship status on the social platform and these things tend to make the relationship goals for them.
Every person and every couple are different and hence their relationships are also unique and different from each other. So, couples goals of relationships should be entirely different for different couples. Every couple has their own taste and preferences which are entirely different from each other. Some love roaming in outdoors with their loved ones while the others love spending time gossiping and watching movies indoors. So definitely their goals of relationship should also be different from each other. In the case of social media too, not every modern days’ couple tend in flaunting their private love affairs socially. Some couple posts on social media frequently while some others post once in a while on social media. While rest of couples don’t prefer posting anything on the social media. Your goals of relationships should not be only to please other people on social media platform.
Don’t strive to have a goal of relationships just to post pictures on some social media platforms. Never try to copy or replicate what other people are doing on the social media. Aim and make your goals of relationships more healthy and loving, rather than making it the materialistic type of relationship which can be used to post some pictures on social platforms. Apart from just posting cozy pictures of your relationships over the social media, there is more to look out for. Relationships are merely based on love, respect, support and trust and goals of relationships should be made considering these all aspects.
Just because your partners don’t post anything on social media regarding your relationships doesn’t mean that he or she loves you any lesser. Loves come in different shapes and sizes and have many forms and it can’t be measured by the Instagram likes or Facebook shares. So change your expectations from the relationship and don’t act to flaunt the relationship on social media, just deal with the relationships in real.Tags: goals of relationships